Age Difference and its Influence on Relationship Dynamics and Marital Stability

Author's Information:

Jemima N. A. A. Lomotey

Grace International Bible University 

Vol 02 No 08 (2025):Volume 02 Issue 08 August 2025

Page No.: 504-513

Abstract:

This study investigates the influence of age differences between partners on relationship dynamics and marital stability, with a particular focus on emotional connection, relational satisfaction, and societal perceptions. Guided by Social Exchange Theory and the Life Course Perspective, the research employed a mixed-methods design, combining quantitative surveys of 200 married couples with qualitative interviews from a purposively selected subsample of 30 couples. The results revealed that significant age disparities—particularly when exceeding ten years—were often associated with challenges in emotional bonding, communication patterns, and long-term compatibility. Qualitative findings indicated that couples with closer age proximity reported more egalitarian relationships and mutual understanding, while those with wider age gaps highlighted differences in life goals, sexual expectations, and social interests. Cultural and societal norms were also found to significantly shape the experiences of age-discrepant couples, with many respondents reporting external judgment or pressure due to community expectations. These findings align with existing literature suggesting that while age differences do not inherently doom relationships, they introduce unique relational dynamics that require intentional navigation. The study fills a critical research gap in the African marital context, where sociocultural norms heavily influence perceptions of marital compatibility. Based on the findings, it is recommended that relationship education and premarital counseling incorporate discussions on age-related expectations and societal pressures. The study contributes to the growing body of knowledge on marriage dynamics and offers valuable insights for couples, counselors, and policymakers seeking to promote marital stability in diverse relational contexts.

KeyWords:

age difference, marital stability, relationship dynamics, emotional compatibility, cultural norms, Ghana, mixed methods

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